Friday, 30 August 2019

MYLES MUNROE: WHY ARE CHRISTIANS FAILING IN MARRIAGE?

 One of the things that really bothered me as a young Christian was hearing  about so many other Christians getting divorced. If followers of Christ  were failing in their marriages, what hope was there for anybody else? Here  were people who supposedly were filled with the Holy Spirit, who supposedly  knew the Holy God, and yet they couldn’t seem to live together and  get along. If that was true, we might as well forget the whole thing!  It took me a little while to learn that success in marriage depends on  more than just being saved. It takes more than just being in love. Being a  believer and being in love are both important in marriage, but they carry no  automatic guarantee of marital success. We need knowledge of biblical  principles; the design parameters that God Himself established. Biblical  principles never change. The principles for a successful marriage and family  that God gave Adam and Eve still work today. They are universally  applicable in every age and in every culture. Trouble comes when we violate  or ignore those principles.  Ultimately, marriage will not survive on love alone, or on feelings. By  itself, just being born again is not enough to guarantee success. A successful  marriage hinges on knowledge—knowing and understanding God’s principles.    God designed marriage for success, and only His counsel  can make it successful.    Marriage is honorable. God instituted marriage, and He alone has the  right to dictate its terms. The institution of marriage is subject to the rules,  regulations, and conditions that God has set down, and He has revealed  them in His Word.  God designed marriage for success, and only His counsel can make it  successful. No one is better at making something work than the person who  designed it. It would be a mistake to use Toyota parts to repair your Ford  automobile. Toyota parts are designed for Toyotas, not Fords. Instead, you  should take your Ford automobile to a licensed Ford service dealer. No one  knows Ford cars better than the Ford Motor Company. Would you take your  Mercedes-Benz to a Ford dealer for repairs? Not if you’re smart. Only a  Mercedes dealer could guarantee to repair it properly. Guaranteed success  means using the right “service man.” It means referring back to the designer.  Marriage is the same way. Success in marriage means using the right  “service man” or “authorized dealer”—referring back to the designer for  guidance. No one knows a product like the manufacturer. No one understands  marriage better than God does. He created it, He established it, He  ordained it, and He blesses it. Only He can make it work. Marriage is honorable  because it is of divine rather than human origin.  If we want our marriage  to be honorable and successful, we must know, understand, and follow  the principles that God has set out in His “manual,” the Bible. That is the  only sure corrective for the ignorance and misinformation that characterizes  so much of the world’s view of marriage.  Knowledge is a critical key to success in anything, and marriage is no  exception. Even Spirit-filled believers may fail in marriage unless they  know and understand the fundamental differences between marriage  “inside the garden” and marriage “outside the garden.”                          ………….Even though they  are born again, many believers have trouble in their marriages because they  have unknowingly embraced the world’s values and views rather than  God’s.  They need to learn how to look to the Holy Spirit for the wisdom and  knowledge to bring their marriage “inside the garden.”    *This is culled from the book, ‘THE PURPOSE AND POWER OF LOVE AND MARRIAGE’ by Dr. MYLES MUNROE. Go grab a copy! Find & Download 40 free ebooks & audios by Dr. Myles Munroe using the DOWNLOAD NOW™: MYLES MUNROE 1.0 Download Guide.    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One of the things that really bothered me as a young Christian was hearing
about so many other Christians getting divorced. If followers of Christ
were failing in their marriages, what hope was there for anybody else? Here
were people who supposedly were filled with the Holy Spirit, who supposedly
knew the Holy God, and yet they couldn’t seem to live together and
get along. If that was true, we might as well forget the whole thing!
It took me a little while to learn that success in marriage depends on
more than just being saved. It takes more than just being in love. Being a
believer and being in love are both important in marriage, but they carry no
automatic guarantee of marital success. We need knowledge of biblical
principles; the design parameters that God Himself established. Biblical
principles never change. The principles for a successful marriage and family
that God gave Adam and Eve still work today. They are universally
applicable in every age and in every culture. Trouble comes when we violate
or ignore those principles.
Ultimately, marriage will not survive on love alone, or on feelings. By
itself, just being born again is not enough to guarantee success. A successful
marriage hinges on knowledge—knowing and understanding God’s principles.

God designed marriage for success, and only His counsel
can make it successful.

Marriage is honorable. God instituted marriage, and He alone has the
right to dictate its terms. The institution of marriage is subject to the rules,
regulations, and conditions that God has set down, and He has revealed
them in His Word.
God designed marriage for success, and only His counsel can make it
successful. No one is better at making something work than the person who
designed it. It would be a mistake to use Toyota parts to repair your Ford
automobile. Toyota parts are designed for Toyotas, not Fords. Instead, you
should take your Ford automobile to a licensed Ford service dealer. No one
knows Ford cars better than the Ford Motor Company. Would you take your
Mercedes-Benz to a Ford dealer for repairs? Not if you’re smart. Only a
Mercedes dealer could guarantee to repair it properly. Guaranteed success
means using the right “service man.” It means referring back to the designer.
Marriage is the same way. Success in marriage means using the right
“service man” or “authorized dealer”—referring back to the designer for
guidance. No one knows a product like the manufacturer. No one understands
marriage better than God does. He created it, He established it, He
ordained it, and He blesses it. Only He can make it work. Marriage is honorable
because it is of divine rather than human origin.
If we want our marriage
to be honorable and successful, we must know, understand, and follow
the principles that God has set out in His “manual,” the Bible. That is the
only sure corrective for the ignorance and misinformation that characterizes
so much of the world’s view of marriage.
Knowledge is a critical key to success in anything, and marriage is no
exception. Even Spirit-filled believers may fail in marriage unless they
know and understand the fundamental differences between marriage
“inside the garden” and marriage “outside the garden.”
                        ………….Even though they
are born again, many believers have trouble in their marriages because they
have unknowingly embraced the world’s values and views rather than
God’s.
They need to learn how to look to the Holy Spirit for the wisdom and
knowledge to bring their marriage “inside the garden.”

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