PASTOR BANKIE: IF A MAN HAS SAID NOTHING, HE HAS SAID NOTHING!
ANSWERS TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP & MARRIAGE
QESTIONS (4)
to me. Because of this man I have rejected
many suitors. I fear I might keep rejecting
suitors and at the end he will not marry me.
Again should I accept another person's
proposal knowing that the real me is in love
with another person?
(maybe because you are not) and this man you say you are in
love with is your boyfriend who you are having sex with and so you
are soul-tied to him, then I am sorry to say I am a teacher of
believers only. The only thing I have to tell you is that you
should
give your life to Christ and God's will will be revealed to you.
Whether you are in love or not, you need Jesus Christ and the
forgiveness of sin in His blood.
However, if you are a believer, I think you should know you
are walking in self-deception. I know you think this thing you are
feeling is real, but trust me, this love you feel is called
infatuation.
Stop fooling yourself. If a
man has said nothing, he has said nothing.
No matter how nice he is and no matter how much he shows
affection, until he says something, he has said nothing. In this
marriage matters, there can be no assumption. Pray for God to help
you forget him and find someone else who is ready to marry you
and who you like. There is nothing like "the real me is in
love with
someone else;" those things are the problems created by
reading
romance novels and watching too much movies. It is just a simple
attraction which you are concentrating too much on. It does not
mean
you are bad; it happens to everyone at one point in life or the
other.
It even happens to some married people, and it is the reason why
people in those permissive societies change wives and husbands
every
so often. "The heart wants what the heart wants" is pure
carnality.
Also, for men, if you are chasing a woman and she looks
and behaves very interested, propose marriage and get your
response.
If she says no, believe her. Don't stay there wasting your time
because you claim you love her. Collect your love and go somewhere
else. Jesus said if you are persecuted in one city, flee to the
next.
A lot of ladies are afraid to let a man go until they get
something
better, so they keep showing positive signs while refusing to make
a
commitment. It is wrong and wicked. As a man, defend yourself by
laying your cards on the table and demanding an answer from her.
Believe the answer when she gives it; if she still says nothing,
forget
her and move on.
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